2 Cor. 4 16-18

So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
2 Corinthians 4:16-18







Saturday 27 April 2013

And I shall dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

It has been a very busy and eventful week. While Henrietta and I were in Vancouver on April 23, for more testing at the cancer clinic we received a call that Henrietta’s mother had suffered a massive stroke. For some days she continued to live but was unresponsive.

The doctors said it would be a matter of days before she would pass away. On April 26 at 3.30 pm she exchanged life with Eternal life. For some years she had a great desire to be with her Lord and Saviour. Her wish and prayer is now fulfilled. Mother passed away at the age of 92 she lived a prayerful life, a life that was marked by amazing blessings but also marked by great trials. Never the less God cared for her in remarkable ways. She was widowed at the age of 38 and had then only lived as an immigrant in the USA for three years. She had the responsibility to raise her four children on her own, Henrietta being the youngest never knew her father because she was only weeks old when her father passed away.

Henrietta being the only sibling that lived close to her mother did however get to spend much time with her, especially the last 20 years when she lived in our town. As her mother grew older she needed much care and Henrietta was at her side as often as needed. Mother will be missed by all, especially by all those who surrounded her closely in her life like our children and grand children whom she loved so dearly.

After 92 years mother’s wish has finally become reality that is to be with her Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. I believe, and she would no doubt agree with the text from Psalm 84:2 My soul longs, yes, faints for the courts of the LORD; my heart and flesh sing for joy to the living God.

The time of her passing was a very touching and remarkable event. A family choir had come to sing for the old folks in the meeting area of the rest home. The door to mothers room was open and unknown to the singers that mother was laying on her deathbed they sang the song "Beyond the Sunset.” It was that during this song that mother cast her eyes once more Heavenward an immediately thereafter gave her last breath. It touched us deeply to say the least. Please see the lyrics of the song below. This was the day that another soul was added to Gods Kingdom.

The prayer of Psalm 23 has become a reality for her, especially the last words “And I shall dwell in the house of the LORD forever”

Just a few words on my treatments. I am now more than one week into Chemo treatments and I am feeling quite good in comparison to previous Chemo treatments. So far I am not nauseated and able to eat reasonably well. Although tired and having an aching body, it is going pretty good.

As I visited mother this week I couldn’t help but wonder, who will be next. A question that should keep us all busy but most important, are you ready to meet your Maker and Creator, God Himself.

Thank you for the many ways of expressing your care, personally or otherwise.
God bless you on your journey.
John
 
Henrietta with her mother in 2013 on moms 92 birthday
 

1. Beyond the sunset,
O blissful morning,
When with our Saviour
Heav'n is begun.
Earth's toiling ended,
O glorious dawning;
Beyond the sunset
When day is done.

2. Beyond the sunset,
No clouds will gather,
No storms will threaten,
No fears annoy;
O day of gladness,
O day unending,
Beyond the sunset,
Eternal Joy.

3. Beyond the sunset,
A hand will guide me
To God, the Father,
Whom I adore;
His glorious presence,
His words of welcome,
Will be my portion
On that fair shore.

4. Beyond the sunset,
O glad reunion,
With our dear loved ones
Who've gone before;
In that fair homeland
We'll know no parting,
Beyond the sunset
For evermore!

 

8 comments:

  1. Henrietta & John
    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family
    May you recieve strength in the coming days
    Ernie & Mary VanderSpek

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  2. Dear John and Henrietta

    I know how your sadness is laced with joy during this time...what an incredible priviledge to know the Lord, we do not mourn as those that have no hope, praise the Lord!

    Praying God will strengthen and uphold you in the difficult days ahead.

    Sincere condolences, love Henry and Jenny

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  3. Dear John and Henrietta

    I know how your sadness is laced with joy during this time...what an incredible priviledge to know the Lord, we do not mourn as those that have no hope, praise the Lord!

    Praying God will strengthen and uphold you in the difficult days ahead.

    Sincere condolences, love Henry and Jenny

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  4. Our condolences re the passing of your mother. Yes, she is in glory now with her Savior jesus Christ!
    Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.

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  5. Dear Henrietta and JOhn,

    Our heartfelt condolences with the passing of your dear Mother. Henrietta, you will feel this empty place most deeply as we saw how devotedly and lovingly you cared for her these past years as you saw her strength and health fail bit by bit. We all knew the end was coming and now the Lord has taken her home. What a glorious day that will be when we all will meet again! Our thoughts and prayers have been and continue to be with you. May God give you the strength you need in the coming days and also afterwards as you stand by your husband in whatever it is that God has in store for both of you...
    With loving prayers,
    Chris and Judy

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  6. Dear brother and sister,

    Our condolences witht he passing away with your mother (in law). She is now seeing her Lord and Saviour in the place where never tears bee. "And the eyes of them that see shall not be dim." (Isaiah 32:3)

    Warm greetings from Haïti, Cees van Breugel

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  7. ~Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time and yet a time of rejoicing that your mom is with her heavenly Father !!wow "What a day that will be !!!" may that song just touch you and meet your needs!! with our love and sympathy ~Esther and Harry

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  8. Dear John & Henrietta:

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this special time of the passing of your dear mother. What a blessing it is when a loved one enters a glorious eternal future. It is the desire of every child of God to be with their Lord and Savior forever. And what that is surpasses all our imagination and understanding.
    1 Corinthians 9 puts it this way: Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for them that love him.

    And 1 John 3 says
    Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.
    2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.
    We will only truly grasp some of the impact of salvation when we arrive in heaven since here we “see in a glass darkly”. As God’s children we are saved from sin and damnation and saved to righteousness and eternal life. And then to reckon the cost and the depth of God’s redeeming love for such as we are in ourselves. These lyrics express it so well….

    How deep the Father's love for us,
    How vast beyond all measure
    That He should give His only Son
    To make a wretch His treasure

    How great the pain of searing loss,
    The Father turns His face away
    As wounds which mar the chosen One,
    Bring many sons to glory

    Behold the Man upon a cross,
    My sin upon His shoulders
    Ashamed I hear my mocking voice,
    Call out among the scoffers

    It was my sin that held Him there
    Until it was accomplished
    His dying breath has brought me life
    I know that it is finished

    I will not boast in anything
    No gifts, no power, no wisdom
    But I will boast in Jesus Christ
    His death and resurrection

    Why should I gain from His reward?
    I cannot give an answer
    But this I know with all my heart
    His wounds have paid my ransom


    And it will take eternity to express our gratitude for it all and bathe in the Father’s love, the Son’s redemption and the Spirit’s empowerment. For then we shall be with Him Who loved us and redeemed us from eternity to eternity.

    Dear friends –be blessed!

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